Saturday, 20 July 2013

Aren't they glorious?








Aren't they glorious?

I saw these 
on a friends' wall
and, to me, they personified summer....
bright and brash!




The pinks were on the same wall
but somehow 'put in the shade' by the others!
They are still pretty




but what they lost in the 'wow factor'
they made up with their sweet fragrance!

I was thinking of the many times
that I had felt I was OK
only to be outshone by someone 
who was more extrovert
or who,

I thought, 
shone more in the personality
or in the ability stakes




These poppies in my garden
look a different shape than conventional poppies
they never truly opened out......
as other poppies seem to




Close up aren't they beautiful
with the teardrops of rain making them shiny?





The honeysuckle in the hedge
so many blossoms..
which all look so ordinary and the same....




but.. 
at night time
when the other, more brash and glitzy flowers,
cannot be seen..
they pervade the atmosphere with their
beautiful perfume!




How about the abundant wild rose
who fill the hedgerows
and don't seem to have anything 'special'
going for them
and yet,
when you spend a moment to stop and stare...
 their delicate colour




and tender petals...
have such an, almost ethereal, beauty!?


Over these last few days
I've been thinking of how so many of us
put ourselves down...

We compare ourselves to others whom, we feel,
have beauty or abilities.....
are better in the workplace, or at home...
who seem to 'have it all'
or
....'be it all'.....

What I am trying to say is that each of us
has a special beauty...
a fragrance
all of our own...
Perhaps it shows up under pressure...
or 'at night' when others have given up and 
can't be bothered!

But for those who stop 
and take the time to get to know us
there are special abilities/strengths that 
can make others' lives the richer!


In my years as a counsellor
I met so many women (in particular)
who didn't realise..
how special and gifted...
what a beautiful fragrance.. 
they brought into the world of those around them.

In other words
they didn't value themselves...their abilities
and giftings.

Please, today,
stop for a moment and think of those
who have brought a fragrance into your life
and drop them a card
or make a short phone call.

What a light and joy
you will bring into the lives...
of other beautiful people who may be going
through a difficult time but hiding
it deep inside.




Now....at last....the winners of my 100th draw...





If you don't know them please go and visit.
You will really enjoy!

To finish....
at last I hear you murmur!

As it's been really hot.....for the UK...
I was driving along with my car windows opened wide
when I smelt a fragrance 
that took me right back to my childhood



when I was a wee lassie
playing near my Granny's home 
in Paisley



there were so many meadowsweet
growing along the banks
of the wee burn

I can still hear her voice saying (when I returned)
" You're absolutely filthy...
come awa' ben the yard 'til I clen ye" !!




Thursday, 11 July 2013

Picton Castle Again!






It's no good....
I just can't stay away from this place....

I just love Picton Castle and it's walled garden!




As we walked from the carpark...
a glorious scent reached us
coming from the rose
cascading over the trees...wonderful!






My friend wanted to do a tour of the inside

and I...

sat under an umbrella in the wonderful courtyard




and enjoyed the peace....




whilst I supped a cup of tea...
and wrote in my journal!




At last my friend returned
and we headed for the walled garden



making a slight detour


through this lovely garden!!




Onwards towards the walled garden...
leaving the castle behind



Isn't this tree wonderful?
My grandchildren love to play on it...
would I were younger!!



At last!



Inside



This garden has a large border 
totally devoted to herbs
with signs next to each one explaining their use



I am trying to take a picture of each one 
along with their information.

But today



we don't have a lot of time so




I want to look at the flowers...












Beautiful borders!!



There is so much to see and enjoy
that I could bring a sandwich
and spend all day here!!



Who knows..
perhaps I might just do that sometime!






Hubbie and son have had another falling out...
Sometimes it is so hard being in the middle of two people that you love so much
and who both think they are right...

Staying here
could well be an option!!


Ah well...
I'd better head for home...
oh joy!!

At least some of its peace
has rubbed off on my sore heart...




Please don't forget my 100th Giveaway
ends 17th July




Saturday, 6 July 2013

100th Post Giveaway !!





I really can't believe it!!
I was going to post about my birthday walk
and suddenly realised 
that this would be.. 
my 100th post

So,
obviously,
I had to have a little giveaway!


But, first, I really want to share with you
the beauty of my birthday walk


It was a glorious day on the 1st July
so a good friend 
(who understands that I can't walk far or fast)
agreed to amble with me
along the footpath at St Non's 



St Davids' mother's home




Where St David is reputed to have been born.....

We headed out taking the footpath 
towards Porthclais.....
I knew that I wouldn't get that far.....
but it's one of my favourite walks



We crossed the field to the edge of the cliffs




and joined the footpath....
which winds its way all around ...
the coast of Pembrokeshire.

I have walked a lot of it and intended to walk it all....!!




The scenery is stunning....





and the variety of wildflowers....incredible!!

My favourite time for this walk is May
when the colours are incredible!!



If you are interested see my post


Obviously this was the earlier part of the path!!



I had to include the thistle as I was born in
Paisley, Scotland...
and this is, after all, my birthday walk!!




We looked back towards St Non's



See the convent in the distance?
Those of you who think you're seeing double..
Yes...this is the same picture as my header...taken a few years ago....and in May







I wonder what's around the corner??




Yes....another wonderful view!!
and then.....



We met a couple 
who were about to go co-steering (coast steering)

They scramble down the cliffs



until they reach sea level and then....



pick their spot and....



jump in!!


They then swim back to the rocks 
....and make their way around the coast



...climbing over rocks....
...swimming where the cliff is too sheer to allow for footholds.....


...and, where they can
clambering over the rocks...



I have to say that, in one place, I wondered what they would do as the sea was really drawing back and smashing against the rocks....
I feared for their safety!!

We couldn't stay until they got to that place...
if indeed they decided to go that far!
All they had were helmets..
..and a boyency aid strapped to their fronts...



As we returned to St Non's
and sat on the wall for a while....
I couldn't help but think that life is so like that...

We jump in...or are pushed..
with very little preparation or aids....

Life can be very rough...
as we look for footholds and shelves of rock 
where we can rest.....
sometimes having to tread water...not sure of the best course to take...

other times it's exhilarating and free...
...and a joy to be a part of!

I expect the best way is a balance of the two.....
...times of joy and much pleasure...
the rough patches 
to make us take stock and evaluate...
..building our strength.. 
..and finding who our friends are...
those who support us and encourage us on....

Thank you all my friends 
who have cheered me on and held my hand over the rough patches of this past year....
I really can't believe 
that I have written so many posts..
(Oh yes we can...I hear you wearily moan!)

I value you all!!




As a thank you I am giving away four small gifts...
I do hate sending just to one of you







Just one Welsh tea towel each
to those who are my followers and let me know that they would like to be added...
an extra entry if..
you mention my giveaway on your blog..

I'll draw the winners on 17th July
Good luck!!